Thursday, December 11, 2008

This was one of those moments!

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away!

Yes, that about sums it up for this day three years ago! Add this day to our list of other days - June 15th and January 30th, when the boys were born. Our three children have completely different stories about the day they came into our lives. Our three children are completely loved (and fiercely!) the same regardless.

Today is our family day. Three years ago today our family became complete.

I truly believe that this day three years ago took the boys breath away too.

They constantly write about their trip to China for numerous school projects. Good thing they always have new teachers so the subject can be written about over and over. It's interesting for me as their mom to compare their writing, so that I can understand how much they really understand (and they do!) and to realize how different the two of them are! Matt writes factual stories. Brendan writes from his heart.

So I'm going to share Brendan's latest writing since it is FAMILY day and you "hear" from me all the time. I want you to see this through his eyes. Remember he was only 7 years old (well almost 8) at the time.

MY TRIP TO CHINA
by Brendan Ahearn

Click, I buckled up and the airplane took off to China. I was getting ready to meet my little sister that my family was going to adopt from China. I was thinking of what I would say to my new sister when it came time to meet her. I was bouncing out of my seat in excitement.

Kamryn was living in the Jiangxi Province in a foster care home. When we finally got to the building where Kamryn was, we noticed that there were mounds of garbage everywhere. I couldn't believe how dirty the outside was. However, when we got inside it was so nice. We went up some stairs and walked down a short hallway that had pictures of adopted children. On a bench I saw three infant girls crying. We were finally going to enter the room where we would get Kamryn!

As the doors opened we saw a room full of babies that were crying. They started calling out last names and the family would greet their new child. When they called our last name I couldn't wait to get my sister! My parents, brother and I had huge smiles on our faces. When we got Kamryn, she was crying so much! Then I realized she was one of the babies that was on the bench. We had to say, "I love you" in Chinese before she calmed down.

In conclusion, getting Kamryn was the best day of my life! I couldn't wait to get home in the U.S.A. to celebrate Christmas with my sister.

11 comments:

Kerry said...

Brendan,
Thank you for sharing your special memories of meeting your sister. When Kamyrn is older, she will love to hear you tell her all that you remember of the day. You are a great big brother.

(Love the photo- tears before 8 on a Friday morning!)

Anonymous said...

Julie, How touching. I love to see Kam react with her brothers. I love seeing her through their eyes. Thanks for putting that on the blog. Give all of them my love!

Love,

Lin

Julie said...

So sweet Brendan. Amazing how the sibling relationship is the same even with adoption. These girls are so lucky to have such great big brothers and these boys are so lucky to have a sister to love and spoil. Happy family day Kamryn.
xoxo
Julie

Chrissie said...

What a great tribute. Thanks for sharing, Julie and Brendan!

Happy Family Day!

2 China 4 Addison said...

That was so sweet. What a treasure for Kamryn to have, too.
Happy Family Day! What a blessing these girls are to our families!
Love you guys!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on three wonderful years as a family of 5!!
Brendan wrote a beautiful story. He truly adores his little sister. As they grow, they will respect each other and love each other more and more every day. As we all do.
Thanks for a wonderful blog.
Love ya all, Mom
PS: Another one with tears at 8AM
Happy tears tho!!!! :o))

Kristen said...

Well, I didn't read your post until after 10:00 p.m., but there are still tears!! How wonderful that you have something like this to share w Kamryn! Big brothers are so wonderful!!

Sue said...

Awww....what a wonderful post!!! What a heartfelt re-telling of such a momentous day for all of you! And that pic says it all!!! (yup....tears here too!)

Twice Blessed China Mom said...

Julie, how special that Brendan shared his memories of Kamryn joining your family. I went to your previous blog about when you were in China. I loved all the photos, especially the couch shot with the Santa hats! How precious! I think Christmas must be even more special to your family every year, knowing that it was that time of the year that your family was completed. Thanks so much for sharing. When I saw your family photos, I thought that it would be so incredible if our FCC families could return to China together, someday, to help our girls know more about their birthland. Merry Christmas!
Jeana

Unknown said...

How tounching!!!
A great brother.


Helen---a chinese au-pair in Vermont

Unknown said...

How touching...
she has a great brother.


Helen---an chinese au-pair in Vermont